Three doesn't make a Relationship. It's two!!

A relationship defines the bond between two people in the equation. That's basic, there's no catalyst and no third person must be involved.

When you love someone and when you're a bit emotionally upset about the way things go between the two of you, it is very natural that you tend to see an outlet to vent your emotions. This especially happens when the one you are in a relationship chooses not to discuss or really talks very less.

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This is the time when things actually get blown up beyond what is necessary, judgemental and leads to impatience, more arguments & increased gap between the one with whom you intend to be in a relationship

Depression could haunt you too much, but try to focus on what's good for you. Thinking too much is the root cause for a lot of relationship issues. As Robin Sharma states in The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, our mind can think of only one thing at a time. To avoid a negative thought, replace it with a positive thought. That way it's lot easier. Have your thoughts diverted, watch movies or listen to music. Try meditation if you want to find answers all by yourself.

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The inclusion of a third person as a source to vent out your emotions, only complicates. When you love someone, don't let an intruder walk in.

Dedicated to someone special!!

Regards,

Karthik Vengatesan

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